Finding Mister Right – Why are bad boys so attractive ?




Finding Mister Right 

Why are bad boys so attractive?

Alpha male or softie…how to detect good husband traits in a man !

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Finding Mister RightMister Handsome 

Today’s males are getting more compassionate and connecting with their sensitive side, and because of this, being in a relationship with a sensitive male is different to one you would have with a ‘traditional true alpha male’

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Ever wondered why so many women fall for machos, latin lovers and bad boys? More fun, more adventure, more thrill? Probably yes …but would he make a good husband , father , a reliable partner for life ? 

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Finding Mister RightMister Maybe 

It will absolutely be more tempting to play with fire … all your friends might be envious , cause you call that object of desire  YOUR man, that guy all girls would love to go out with . But is that the main essential ‘talent’ a man should provide , a outrageously good look wrapped in voguish brand clothes , posing as tough as possible. Does that make a guy a real man ?

Or is not sensitivity, understanding, caring for others and gentleness a lot more attractive? Sensitivity is an important trait because relationships are complicated , and they could become problematic if one or both partners stop interacting , remain angry, or play the blame game . It can be difficult to be in a loving relationship with a man who is not in touch with his ‘male feminine side ‘. If they aren’t in touch with their emotions , it’s often hard to tell where they stand and even harder to get a true picture of how they feel.

Finding Mister Right
Finding Mister Right
A sensitive male is truly interested in his partner, asking questions and wanting to learn more about her. He is a good listener and can understand what his partner feels when she expresses emotions.

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The sensitive guy is not afraid to display his love and affection for his partner in a variety of ways. He does so in both, big (the special romantic vacation, a great gift from her much-loved store ) and small (cooking her dinner whenever she is tired, motivating her to have some social time with other girlfriends )

When there is an argument between a sensitive male and his partner , there isn’t any name calling or yelling , and they both fight fair. He expresses his emotions and feelings, listens to his partner as she expresses hers and looks for a solution that reveals a compromise. Certainly, he will get angry at times, but he bounces back and gets over it very quickly.

A sensitive male cares about the feelings of other people and will feel badly if he hurts someone else’s feelings .

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Finding Mister Right ~ Mister Gentleman ~

He keeps his pride in check and doesn’t feel the need to be the smartest , most attractive , or the most fascinating man in the room . He will always fit easily into any situation.In terms of making social plans , a sensitive guy finds a good rhythm between doing what he wants and engaging in what other people want . He seems to be aware of when it’s important to lead and when to follow. 

What many girls search for in a male is someone who will be caring and loving to them . A sensitive male will care for your wants and needs , your desires and demands and will make sure that you are happy .Your feelings matter to him . It’s this quality of a sensitive male that shows you he will never intentionally hurt you and he can be trusted with your heart.

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Finding Mister Right ~ Mister Right ~

Sensitive males are always gentlemen . He treats people with respect and has an almost chivalrous way about him . Whether it’s your friends , family or associates , a sensitive male will be well liked because he is genuine.

Sensitive males are always equipped with  good husband traits because they value long-term commitments . When they enter into a relationship they do so with their whole heart . His family will always come first ! He will be able to help navigate life’s challenges without too much emotional turmoil symptoms  because he is grounded in who he is and in his relationships.
Don’t mistake a sensitive male for an unrealistic one. He can stand his ground when necessary but does so with respect and logic . He might trust his intuition and let it guide him , but he still has control of his emotions when it matters most . He is anything but a pushover.

A sensitive man stands firm in his beliefs because they are his guiding voice !

If all this makes a sensitive man a ‘softie’, then go for that softie . The bad guys might be more alluring, but the good guys are the solid fundaments for life . But keep in mind, all this works solely by mutual agreement. It’s a constant deal of giving and taking. Love, respect and understanding does not work in a ‘one-way direction’.

Expect a human being , not somebody ideal and perfect. Nobody is going to be all you have ever longed for . You already know that you are not Ms. Perfect . He will certainly make mistakes aswell. Relax a little and don’t be too picky. Remain open for human frailty. Look beyond physical attractiveness.

Hold your horses and be patient. Rome was not built in one day. It may take a while to uncover what appeals to you. You might make a couple of good pals , and even break a heart or two. You might get hurt . That’s all just part of the game , hold on to it ,here are good men out there .

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Finding Mister Right ~ The most important thing is: Avoiding Mister Wrong !

 

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Jess Kaorm

Each of us needs someone in our life to share the rest of our life with (but then, still our choice to choose for whom we settle of what kind of guy we will engaged to).

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Kyle Holbert

I believe that everybody has their own opinions when it comes down to finding “Mr Right” and each person has a different personality so it just depends if your personality can basically match with somebody else.

Sonnie

IMO, all boys are alpha males when dealing w/ woman whom they’re not in-love with. And the moment they find the right woman, he becomes the sensitive man.

Woman should understand what a man looks for in a serious relationship to awaken the sensitive man from within. Otherwise, the man will just be on the playful alpha male mode.

Aika Loraine

I never liked bad boys, though of course masculine is different from bad. I love my boyfriend, he is very compassionate and sweet. 🙂 but of course, the attitude of the opposite sex matters too.

Cheryle

I think finding Mr. Right depends on personal standards. Meaning, it’s not definite. It has different perspectives. But I hope every woman finds her Mr. Right that will take care of her, understand her, and accept her as she is.

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Berlin Maynigo

They say you need to meet the wrong man first in order for you to know who the right man is. I’ve met a couple of good and bad men and i am confident ive met my match. Your post is truly inspiring and useful:)

Pete Zafra

I honestly think it all boils down to confidence. When a man is confident with himself and comfortable with who he is and embrace that fact, it appeals a lot to women. They find that attractive. I find it attractive when a woman is this way. Someone doesn’t have to be the bad boy type to be like this.

I know it may seem like a movie or a fantasy to some women dating the bad boy, but in the long run, I think it’s not always the smartest idea as the bad boys take time to mature and realize what they need to do to actually make it in life. I clearly saw one of my aunts go through this and suffer from this. She was always not treated right, hurt and every now and then, the guy would even lay his hands on her. Yeah he was cool, rich and feared by most people, but he wasn’t family material. Now, my aunt married the total opposite and now has 2 beautiful daughters.

In the long run, maturity, creativity, confidence, understanding and compassion is what can create successful relationships in my opinion.

Marge Gavan

I’ve been attracted to bad boys but never really had relationships with them. I guess it’s the natural woman’s instinct to want to be noticed by men who are so manly and beautiful. In relationships though I want a man who is sensitive, but I certainly want him to be good looking as well. I’m not wishing for a Brad Pitt, but I want a man I am attracted to physically, at least.

David

I’m the mister sensitive LOL. I really do care and respect others. I would love t hear partners problems and anthing that bothering them. Girls have different taste for men and different meaning for the ‘perfect man’.

Eunis

Bad boy looks sometimes turn girls on. But I chose someone put together the sense of a guy and ready for our future even when I was young then. I’ve been inlove for his goal for our future family to works out. I think sensitive person that fits to you is important, lucky I am I found mine. Each of us needs someone in our life to shared the rest of our life (but then, still our choice to choose for whom we settle of what kind of guy we will engaged to).

ROBERT LEE

Oh boy, this is an extremely difficult topic that can never be fully covered even with multiple posts. You see, what an ideal male person should be in complimentary to women. No one is exactly the same. There are cultural differences, economic (social class) differences that affects the way a person thinks and acts.

Having said that, at the core of most males more women wants is someone who could understand them, and being sensitive is a step in that direction.

Dominic Barrios

Wow! That’s a tough act to follow. Mr. Sensitive, by the way he was being described, sounds like Mr. Perfect too. I thought they don’t exist anymore. But at the end of your article, you mentioned that Mr. Sensitive can create mistakes too and that gave the ladies hope and other men a chance.

I think Mr Bad guy is Mr Trouble too. If a lady is attracted to him because of just his looks and the challenge, that’s a recipe for a failed relationship. I believe that for a relationship to be successful, you just have to set your negotiables and non-negotiables first. Even if the person lacks the qualities of Mr Sensitive, if you think you can live with that, then continue to get to know the person more.

Final thought: It always takes two to tango. We must make sure that we,ourselves, would want to be in a relationship with us.

alison

I have never been the person to like the bad boy. I want someone put together and ready for a future even when I was young. I like responsibility and ambition and someone that works hard. I think finding the sensitive person that fits to you is important. Each person needs someone who can help them personally through life and definitely not Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right NOW! 🙂

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